Civix Institute

What is your parenting archetype?

The proprietary Civix™ model places your way of parenting on six dimensions and assigns you to one of twelve archetypes, grouped into four families. No overall score, no ranking, no method to follow.

  • Harvard University
  • Stanford University
  • University of Oxford
  • MIT
  • Columbia University
  • Yale University
  • Princeton University
  • UC Berkeley
  • London School of Economics
  • Sciences Po

Institutions shown to illustrate where the analysis methods used by Civix are taught.

6

dimensions analysed

4

parenting families

12

archetypes identified

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Twelve ways of raising, four families

Each profile has its own way of running a household. None is a level, and yours is not always the one you think.

The Landmarks

A legible framework, held over time.

The Architect of the Everyday
The Conductor
The Steady Course

The Companions

The relationship first, the rest works itself out.

The Playmate
The Shelter
The Good Life

The Scouts

Trust early, and show it.

The Hand-Over
The Quiet Coach
The Trailblazer

The Watchers

Being there before it gets hard.

The Attentive Watcher
The Groundwork
The Tender Guard

Where do you stand next to them?

The Civix™ model places every profile on the same six dimensions, including those of characters everyone knows.

Captain von Trapp

The Sound of Music

The Landmarks

He gathers his children with a whistle, has given each of them a rank and a uniform, and runs the household on a timetable that does not depend on the mood of the day.

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Marge Simpson

The Simpsons

The Companions

She consoles before she sanctions, takes her children's side against the school, and puts the atmosphere of the house ahead of the rule she had just set.

Fictional characters, assigned to a family on the strength of their story, as a landmark. They remain the property of their rights holders and are cited on that basis alone. No real person is classified here: the way someone raises their children cannot be established from the outside.

How a profile is established

Each theme measures its own dimensions and describes its own profiles. The protocol that establishes them meets the same requirements throughout.

  1. 01

    You answer

    A series of statements, one answer each time, on a scale of agreement. About four minutes.

  2. 02

    The model places your answers

    Each answer feeds six independent dimensions. Your position on each is compared with that of other respondents.

  3. 03

    You receive your profile

    The profile you are closest to among twelve, the family it belongs to, and what sets you apart from it.

Your report at a glance

Your profile

The Architect of the Everyday

Sample report

StructureAuthorityWarmthEmotionsAutonomyExpectations

In your report

You organise a legible daily life, where each thing has its moment, and you readily explain what your rules rest on. That predictability spares your child permanent negotiation and spares you arbitrariness. It has a cost you know: the unforeseen costs you more than it costs others, and sometimes the organisation has to be defended for its own sake, once everyone has forgotten what it was for.

Continued in your full report

Les six dimensions du modèle Civix™

Chaque réponse alimente six axes indépendants. Cliquez sur une dimension pour en découvrir le détail.

They discovered their archetype

Thousands of parents have already taken the parenting profile test.

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« I have been called rigid for ten years. The report explains what regularity gains, and what it costs, without deciding for me. »
SSophie, 38The Architect of the Everyday
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« I expected a lecture about being too present. The text describes, it does not correct. »
KKarim, 41The Attentive Watcher
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« The part on how much energy welcoming emotions takes made me put the phone down. That is exactly it. »
EElodie, 35The Shelter
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« My father-in-law thinks I give them too much freedom. I finally have a clear statement of what I do and why. »
TThomas, 44The Hand-Over
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« No moral lesson, no parenting advice. I am described, and I do what I like with the description. »
NNadia, 33The Playmate
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« Six dimensions instead of a single style. It is the first time a test has not filed me under a category that was already marked. »
MMark, 47The Steady Course
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« The passage on the difference between protecting and controlling taught me something I had never read elsewhere. »
CCamille, 36The Tender Guard
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« I recognised myself in the sentence about stepping back too fast. It is said without judgement, which is why you listen. »
JJulian, 39The Quiet Coach
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« The sources are cited with dates, including the ones that contradict the rest. Rare on this subject. »
LLaura, 42The Groundwork
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« My partner and I each took it separately. The gaps between our two profiles explained our disagreements better than an evening of talking. »
AAnthony, 34The Good Life
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« I appreciated the reminder that the limit of what is reasonable changes from country to country. It puts the reproaches in their place. »
FFatou, 40The Trailblazer
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« The report says what my organisation leaves out without suggesting I dismantle it. That is honest. »
PPeter, 45The Conductor
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« I have been called rigid for ten years. The report explains what regularity gains, and what it costs, without deciding for me. »
SSophie, 38The Architect of the Everyday
★★★★★
« I expected a lecture about being too present. The text describes, it does not correct. »
KKarim, 41The Attentive Watcher
★★★★★
« The part on how much energy welcoming emotions takes made me put the phone down. That is exactly it. »
EElodie, 35The Shelter
★★★★★
« My father-in-law thinks I give them too much freedom. I finally have a clear statement of what I do and why. »
TThomas, 44The Hand-Over
★★★★★
« No moral lesson, no parenting advice. I am described, and I do what I like with the description. »
NNadia, 33The Playmate
★★★★★
« Six dimensions instead of a single style. It is the first time a test has not filed me under a category that was already marked. »
MMark, 47The Steady Course
★★★★★
« The passage on the difference between protecting and controlling taught me something I had never read elsewhere. »
CCamille, 36The Tender Guard
★★★★★
« I recognised myself in the sentence about stepping back too fast. It is said without judgement, which is why you listen. »
JJulian, 39The Quiet Coach
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« The sources are cited with dates, including the ones that contradict the rest. Rare on this subject. »
LLaura, 42The Groundwork
★★★★★
« My partner and I each took it separately. The gaps between our two profiles explained our disagreements better than an evening of talking. »
AAnthony, 34The Good Life
★★★★★
« I appreciated the reminder that the limit of what is reasonable changes from country to country. It puts the reproaches in their place. »
FFatou, 40The Trailblazer
★★★★★
« The report says what my organisation leaves out without suggesting I dismantle it. That is honest. »
PPeter, 45The Conductor

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